We now support repeating events. If you are an event organizer, you can set your event and forget it (though we check it). Set it to repeat on the same day every year, or weekly, daily, whatever.
We also support local mode. These are smaller events. You can define what city the event occurs in and then these events will show up on the map.
A map made of invitations
Find the door. Meet the people. Step into something bigger.
KinkKal gathers the scattered details of community life into one welcoming place. From a first local munch to a destination convention, we help people see what is possible and find where they belong.
A calendar is useful. A compass can change a life.
Every listing is a small signal that says community is here, and there is room for you.
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Make the first step feel possible
Clear dates, locations, links, and descriptions turn uncertainty into a plan. Someone can move from curious to connected with confidence.
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Let every kind of gathering be seen
Local munches, workshops, parties, conferences, and getaways all matter. If it serves kink community, it has a place on the map.
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Give organizers a wider horizon
Organizers can submit and manage their own listings, helping the right people discover the spaces they work so hard to create.
The people behind the pins
Community members who turn tips, submissions, and scattered details into a map people can trust.
DaddyBearMike
Map Team Volunteer
DaddyBearMike, co-head of house, Domum Corium Cordis (House of Leather Heart), engages the national BDSM and Leather community through service, education, and play. He is VP of NM-REAL in Albuquerque, associate member of The 15, and CHC. He has col...
DaddyBearMike, co-head of house, Domum Corium Cordis (House of Leather Heart), engages the national BDSM and Leather community through service, education, and play. He is VP of NM-REAL in Albuquerque, associate member of The 15, and CHC. He has collaborated with Switch Jake on DM training.
Bear Mike, also Poppa Savant Onyx and Mama's Alpha Tech, is a founder and VP of New Mexico Respect Ethics Acceptance in Leather (NM-REAL, Inc.) a 501c3. He is producer of Kinktoberfest, New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair, SLaP! (Social Learn and Play!), Low Sensory Leather Social and helped establish other events held by the Onyx High Desert chapter.
Mike has judged multiple contests. He teaches nationally with his husband Marvin on topics such as Reducing Community Conflict , Born Kinky β Discovering Kink, Improving Community Inclusion, Better BDSM with Passion, Electroplay, Dungeon Monitoring, Kinky Naked Yoga, and NM Leather History. Mike is a Dom in most BDSM but switches to learn or relax, skilled in impact, electroplay, sensation play, fisting, watersports, and anything else fun.
Switch Jake has been involved with the BDSM community since 2001, bringing over 25 years of experience and 20 classes to the scene. As an avid educator, he has taught 97 classes in 28 cities the United States and Canada at various BDSM conventions an...
Switch Jake has been involved with the BDSM community since 2001, bringing over 25 years of experience and 20 classes to the scene. As an avid educator, he has taught 97 classes in 28 cities the United States and Canada at various BDSM conventions and groups. Since his first presentation in 2012, over 14 years ago, he has striven to increase knowledge and acceptance of alternative lifestyles, even teaching at colleges and vanilla establishments to shine a favorable light on the community.
Locally, Switch Jake is a staple at The Denver Sanctuary. He trains Dungeon Monitors, acts as a house manager, leads the TNG party, runs discussion groups, and teaches whenever the need arises. He jokingly says that if the Sanctuary had an apartment, heβd live there.
On the organizational side, he has been a Director for HECK since 2024. Additionally, he hosts the BDSM podcast "Kink in the Chain" under the pseudonym Rope Squirrel, where he gives relationship advice and interviews people of importance within the kink community.
Switch Jake is thankful for everything the community has given him and is excited to be here to share his knowledge.
Built by Switch Jake, powered by everyone who contributes
Is it a switch?
I built KinkKal because finding community should not require knowing the right person, watching ten different feeds, or getting lucky with a search. Technology can make the path easier, but people make the map worth following. If you find an easter egg, blame me π.
